Written By Lesallan – July 7, 2023

Here are some tips and tricks to share with you. You see, I used to be bored and lonely on the weekends until I discovered some hobbies and activities that make me happy and fulfilled. Here are some of them:

– Reading: There is nothing like curling up with a good book and getting lost in another world. Reading stimulates your imagination, expands your vocabulary, and improves your critical thinking skills. Plus, you can find books on any topic that interests you, whether fiction or non-fiction, history or science, romance or thriller. You can also join online book clubs or forums to discuss your favorite books with other readers.

– Cooking: Cooking is a useful skill and a creative outlet. You can experiment with different recipes, ingredients, flavors, and cuisines. You can also challenge yourself to cook something new every weekend or try to recreate dishes from your favorite restaurants or movies. Cooking can also be relaxing and therapeutic, as you focus on the process and enjoy the results. Furthermore, who knows, maybe you will impress someone with your culinary skills someday.

– Gaming: Gaming is not just for kids or nerds. Gaming is a fun and engaging way to spend your time, especially if you have a console or a PC. You can play solo or online with other gamers depending on your mood and preference. You can also choose from various genres like action, adventure, strategy, simulation, sports, or puzzles. Gaming can also improve your hand-eye coordination, problem-solving skills, and reflexes.

– Volunteering: Volunteering is a great way to give back to your community and make a difference in someone’s life. You can find volunteer opportunities that match your interests and skills, such as tutoring, mentoring, animal sheltering, gardening, or fundraising. Volunteering can also help you meet new people, make new friends, and network with potential employers or partners. Volunteering can also boost your self-esteem, happiness, and sense of purpose.

– Learning: Learning does not stop when you graduate from school. You can learn throughout your life, enriching your mind and soul. You can learn anything you want, whether a new language, a musical instrument, a software program, or a craft. You can also take online courses or watch tutorials on YouTube to learn from experts or peers. Learning can also improve your memory, creativity, and productivity.

– Guitar Playing: Playing guitar can be fun and relaxing. You can learn your favorite songs, jam with your friends, or strum along to your tunes. Playing guitar can also boost your creativity and help you express yourself. You can write your songs, experiment with different sounds, or improvise on the spot. Playing guitar can also improve your skills and confidence. You can challenge yourself to learn new techniques, play in front of an audience, or join a band. Playing guitar can also make you happy and healthy. You can enjoy the music, release stress, or burn calories. Playing guitar is a good hobby for anyone who loves music and wants to have fun.

These are just some things I do on the weekends as a single guy living alone with a tiny social circle. Of course, you do not have to do all of them if they do not suit you. The point is to find something you enjoy doing that makes you happy and fulfilled. Furthermore, who knows, you will meet someone who shares your passions and hobbies. Nevertheless, until then, do not let the weekends get you down. Make them count!

Written By Lesallan – July 7, 2023


Lesallan

Lesallan Bostron is a Christian leader, writer, and practitioner committed to incarnational ministry and cross‑cultural partnership. He holds a Bachelor of Arts in Christian Leadership and combines academic study with hands‑on experience in community engagement, discipleship, and mission strategy. Lesallan’s work emphasizes culturally sensitive approaches that prioritize local leadership, long‑term sustainability, and spiritual formation. His vocational journey includes service in the Air Force, experience in sales, and practical stewardship of rural life, including horse care and farm work. These varied roles have shaped his pastoral instincts, resilience, and capacity to work across social and cultural boundaries. Lesallan brings this practical wisdom into classroom settings, short‑term mission planning, and curriculum design, always centering humility, listening, and mutual accountability. Lesallan’s research and writing focus on rethinking mission from models of exportation to models of partnership. He draws on historical examples, contemporary missiological scholarship, and lived practice to advocate for pre‑departure listening, capacity transfer, and reparative accountability. His devotional writing and teaching aim to bridge academic insight and spiritual formation, helping churches and practitioners translate theology into ethical, effective ministry. Available for speaking, teaching, and collaborative projects, Lesallan seeks partnerships that honor local agency and cultivate sustainable discipleship. He lives in Wisconsin and welcomes conversation with pastors, mission leaders, and educators who are committed to faithful, contextually wise engagement.